Lost In The Fog

One of the first tasks of the morning is to let our three little Japanese Chin dogs out to do their morning business. With my trusty flashlight, I check the grounds for predators while Bear takes the lead running out into the yard. Next, I take Zoe down the steps and set her in the usual spot near the flower bed. She is nearly blind now but, other than needing help down the steps, she does fairly well on her own. After taking care of her bathroom business, she is able to use the path along the flower beds to guide her back to the house. I’m sure the beam of my flashlight helps as well. And Mr. T, well, every day is a new day for him. Most of the time he refuses to go down the steps and sometimes he makes me chase him around the yard before I can get him back in the house – just for fun, of course. Yes, with Mr. T, I get my weight lifting exercise each day, lugging his 18 pound body in and out and up and down stairs.

This morning, it was unusually foggy and quiet out and everyone, including Mr. T, seemed to be cooperating and staying close to the house. The nearby street lights cast a blur of light that drew my attention to the moving mist. I noticed silhouettes of two deer running through the pasture with a smaller deer trailing behind at a slower trot. I knew that last one was Daisy deer when I generated a flash from her reflective orange collar with my flashlight. She and her friends had been across the way eating acorns under the big oak tree at my Mom-in-law’s house.

As I watched Daisy trot to the woods after her companions, I noticed a police cruiser slowly driving up the alley with bright beams on. Along the intersecting street, a big white Suburban crept along with spotlights directed towards houses on both sides.  Just last week, there was a major drug bust in the area and a helicopter had flown over most of the morning. Then later in the week, the front page of the newspaper reported vandals and theft in various areas of town. I wondered what was going on now? Something was up for sure.

As I walked to unlock the front gate, I noticed several people walking down the street and talking rather loudly. I saw a couple more vehicles moving at a snail’s pace. For the most part, I am not fearful or anxious about danger, so I went ahead and opened the gate. Besides, I had my big club-like flashlight in my hand, my cell phone in my pocket, and I am a really good screamer. I also felt safe since there were other people nearby, and odds were unlikely that anyone had jumped the gate or perimeter fence. Still, I thought to myself, if I was a burglar being chased by police, the first place I would run to would be the woods! Our woods…

Cattle graze in the pecan orchard as the sun begins to burn off the dense fog.
Cattle graze in the pecan orchard as the sun begins to burn off the dense fog.

As FD headed out the driveway to go to work, I saw two men approach his truck just as he pulled it out of our storage building. I threw on a heavier jacket since the temps were in the upper 40’s and headed out to meet them and see what was going on. As it turned out, a relative of theirs, who was an elderly lady that lives just across the alley from us, left her house on foot somewhere around 5:00 this morning. The men stated she possibly had dementia and that her husband was not sure she was clothed appropriately and had no idea where she might be. These men were asking permission to look for her on our property. So, I walked back to our house, donned my Muck boots and joined in the search.

The fog was still heavy, but daylight was filtering through. One man went south, the other walked north, and I walked into the thick of the trees to the west. If she managed to get to the pecan orchard or beyond, it could be a real problem to find her. Looking around, I found no clues. There were no prints left by feet in the dewy grasses. I found no sign of anyone climbing over our fences. Any other day, it would be fairly easy to see a ways through the trees since the leaves had been falling for weeks, but this morning’s fog made seeing any distance quite difficult. I finally went back to the east and out to the street where I stopped and called our next-door neighbor to the north and also my in-laws. By now, vehicles were combing the neighborhood and people were walking everywhere.

Returning back towards our home and back down into the canyon, I noticed city workers moving in rows out in the tall grasses of the pecan orchard. I had just hiked to the river yesterday, and even the shorter grasses in the pecan orchard were thickly matted. What a misery to try to plow through the wet weeds trying to find a small woman, and in the fog no less. I was not too excited about mushing through our woods either, as there were masses of spider webs everywhere. The condensation from the fog made for a drippy walk, and the woodland floor was slick with mud. Clawing through the woods and up the hill to the southwest area of the property was nearly impossible. After reaching the furthest area I could manage, I noticed a group of four city workers approaching from behind me. Two of them were covered in the red, tacky mud. They had managed climbing the slick route up the hill that I refused to take, and declared there was no way the old woman could be on our property.

People from all over town gather at the woman's home to help in the search.
People from all over town gather at the woman’s home to help in the search.

As I headed to the house to take a break, I passed by the area where I often sat with Daisy deer when she was just a fawn. She favored a spot with soft grasses, where she had a vantage point looking out over a vast area of the woodlands, which allowed her to be observant of any comings and goings of woodland critters. It was a shady place where air channeled through along the buggy path. I marveled at how Daisy instinctively knew the best places to rest. As I rounded the path through the woods and the sun illuminated the fog, I saw before me dozens of domed spider webs! Perched on low shrubs, these marshmallow like homes seemed to float, as if they were some miniature alien infiltration in the woodlands! Wanting to capture the sight before the conditions changed, I ran back to the house for my camera!

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The more I walked around the woodland bottom, the more unusual spider homes I found.  No wonder I was ensnared in so many webs during my search through the woods – they were everywhere! By the time I finished taking a few photographs, I noticed the activity in the neighborhood had subsided. All of the cars that had been parked along the street at the woman’s house were gone. The fog had lifted and the sun was shining bright.

As I returned to our house, I was thankful for the unexpected events of the morning. It was good to see so many people come together to help – neighbors, city workers, the police department, fire and rescue teams, and various other folks who just wanted to help. It is easy to be discouraged in these difficult times, and wonder if there is any good in the world… but there is. We all walk around in a fog sometimes, but there is always a light that shines somewhere, to help us find our way home…

I was able to track Daisy's nighttime movement all around our property this morning. I am happy she still comes "home" from time to time!
I was able to track Daisy’s nighttime movement all around our property this morning. I am happy she still comes “home” from time to time!

© 2015 Day by Day the Farm Girl Way…


36 thoughts on “Lost In The Fog

    1. I assume they found her around 11:00 in the morning as I noticed the vehicles had left the neighborhood and no one was walking around. No one ever called me. When I checked with a couple of neighbors, no one else had heard anything either.

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  1. What a wonderful “slice of life”. I had an experience years ago of an elderly man walking right into our home. At first I didn’t realize, but I soon saw he had dementia. He thought our house was his, and was determined to be in it. He eventually could remember his name, and I looked it up in the phone book. His wife answered- he had just been moved to a nursing home in our neighborhood. She was so grateful I had called, and alerted the home where he was. It was a bit scary at first! But I was so glad to help him.

    And I LOVED your domed spiderweb photos! Magical! Thank you for a sweet post 🙂

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    1. Thank you for sharing your story, Margaret. I can see where one would need to treat the situation with some caution and good sense! Arguing or convincing wouldn’t have helped. You managed very well. 🙂

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    1. Thank you, Paulette. There is always something interesting to see in the woodlands. It is why I often get sidetracked in a day, dawdling around with the camera finding all sorts of interesting subjects to photograph! 🙂

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  2. Great story. Loved the photos which are so interesting. I’m assuming the elderly lady was found. I suppose it would have been in the papers or on the TV or radio if she were still missing. I’m glad that Daisy is still coming home to eat and bringing friends along.

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    1. Thank you, Yvonne. I am sure they found the woman too, but it would have been nice if someone had contacted known neighbors to announce she was found. Most of the time Daisy shows up at night (we have game cameras in the canyon) and sometimes I see her up top near our blackberry bushes, but she disappears at daylight. I miss her, but I’m happy she’s living the life of a wild deer and it’s especially nice that she has companions. I bet we see more of her during the day when she’s got bucks chasing her! She seems to know they won’t come near the houses and buildings! Smart girl. 🙂

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    1. Thank you, Lynda. Had I not been searching for the woman, I would never have seen the unusual spider web formations. I certainly didn’t do justice to these lovely floating homes, but they were definitely a sight to see!

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  3. Great narrative. Sounds almost like a mystery novel. But it would’ve been complete with how the woman was found (are we sure that she HAS been?). The spider homes are awesome!

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    1. Mandeep, no one ever called to say she was found but I’m sure she was or I would have heard something. It’s not likely I’ll find out just what happened, since the family I spoke with seemed embarrassed about her disappearance. It was such a cold morning, and so damp from the fog. I hope she’ll be ok. As for the spider webs, I had never seen anything like it! It really looked like a floating alien township of spiders!!

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  4. I am impressed by the coming together of your community to search for this elderly woman. That certainly shines light in an often foggy world. I am thankful she was found.

    Your descriptive storytelling drew me into the drama, the scene. You are an excellent crafter of words.

    I’ve never seen anything like those clusters of spider webs.

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    1. Oh, thank you, Audrey! That just made my day! I had never seen spider webs like that either. The area I photographed was the most spectacular cluster of homes, but there were others – more sporadic, throughout the woodlands. They truly looked like a floating marshmallow village!

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  5. How exciting AND you managed to have a profound moment to learn a brilliant life lesson right in the middle of it. I am hoping that they found the elderly lady and that life has settled down and thank you for the reminder that people are predominately good together. We forget that whenever we pick up a newspaper or watch the news because what is being reported is only the worst of us. The best of us is all around us and just waiting to share, to understand and to help 🙂

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    1. You have that pegged, Fran. I love times like this when people join together without being summoned. They just show up and do what must be done. It feels wonderful to be a part of a collective endeavor. 🙂

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    1. Thank you, Tom. I did not mention it, but at the same time we were all looking for the woman in the fog, just 15 miles away the fog contributed to a five-car pile up where several people were injured and a high school student killed. Apparently someone took a chance of passing on a highway, in the fog, and hit a car with three high school students head on. Three more cars traveling along crashed into the scene. You be careful out there, Tom!

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  6. There’s always something to see and photograph, isn’t there. I saw floating spider threads the other day on a morning dog walk, lit up by the low morning sun and of course didn’t have my camera. My father has dementia and it’s a real worry that he’ll ‘escape’ and get lost. It’s such a terrible disease. I love the photo of the cows; Bisous xxx

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    1. Hello Henrietta! I had to look up “bisous”! I love when you say just a few words of French. We love traveling to the islands of the French West Indies, and have found if we just speak a few words in French, we are received much better by the locals. I think my favorite thing this time of year is hiking to the river with the camera and just parking myself on a fallen tree trunk or finding a soft spot to sit and wait to see what wild critter presents itself. Everywhere we go, there is something to observe and study. I learn so much out there in nature. Is your father here in the states or with you? We hear so much about dementia and Alzheimer’s. There are so many worries and heartaches that go along with these illnesses.

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  7. Another lovely story, Lori. As someone above already said, you do have a way with words! The spiderwebs are really neat. Did you happen to see any of the spider residents while you were looking at them? I’m curious what type of spider makes that type of web.

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  8. Beautifully written and photographed Lori. I hate spiders but those webs are amazing! I love how you tied everything up with us walking in the fog, but eventually there is the light. Your friend, the Light Chaser 😉

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    1. Thank you, Ardys. I never used to like spiders or snakes, but living here I have learned to respect them and their part in nature. I am amazed by their tenacity, and their unusual ways of surviving. I have spent many dark moments in life… as I have aged, I realize the light was always with me. I just did not see it or maybe I didn’t appreciate that it caused me to see there was more to life than sitting in my dark hole of misery. Thank you for being my “Light Chaser” friend. 🙂

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  9. Oh Lori, this is such a lovely retelling of your misty experience. At various points along the way I was getting nervous…the police car and the drug bust story had me wondering where you were leading. And then when you were helping to search for the woman I wondered if it would end in a sad discovery. I was nervous, then relieved and then nervous again! And what a finale! What amazing spider webs! I wish I’d been there to share in the magic but your photographs are beautiful. You’ve woven such a lovely story of your experiences in this post and last paragraph ended it perfectly. Well done, my friend! 🙂

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    1. Jane, what a compliment your comment was to me. When someone tells me they went through the emotions and “felt” the twists and turns in the story, I feel successful in my writing. Being able to relay my own feelings and adventure through writing is one thing, but when it evokes similar feeling in the reader I know I achieved giving the reader “my” experience. That is also why I love reading your adventurous stories. Your humor about blunders or faux pas in the journey also delight me. I can often relate to that!

      I had never seen spider homes like that. It turns out they are spiders of the Linyphiidae family, found all over the world. I will not soon forget the sight nor the feeling I felt as I discovered that alien-looking village of spider dome homes. It was truly magical!

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  10. Fog, and fragile thread. Pretty much describes life for all of us.
    What a nice community you live in. Glad to know that still exists and you are there.
    For a bit I was wondering if you were going to find the lady sitting with Daisy. Animals do see things.
    What amazing spider community. I’ve seen the webs that have holes in the middle, but not the domed one. Such engineering and designs. I always feel so badly when I accidentally crash into one – all that work has to be redone!

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    1. What a beautiful first line in your comment. I had never seen anything like those domed spider homes either. They were simply amazing. You know I have been careful about stepping on anything like that in the woodlands – or as you say, “crash into one”. I saw something on TV one time about monks sweeping the path ahead of them with brooms so that they do not step on any living creatures while on their daily walks. While that’s not really helpful in the woodlands, it has caused me to watch where I am going. Although my problem that morning was, looking down to make sure I didn’t disturb anything and looking for tracks or clues to the missing woman, while looking straight ahead to see if I saw the woman from a distance, and yet I wasn’t always paying attention to what was up front and close as I did crash into webbing and had a few pokes in the head by low-hanging tree branches. I certainly understand the many injuries wildlife incur while being in nature. Walking with Daisy surely made me aware of so much more than I ever paid attention to before.

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  11. What an unexpected adventure! Good storytelling too. I felt like I was with you when you discovered the spider homes. And I like the cows in the fog. So peaceful looking.

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    1. Cows always look peaceful to me. I love when our neighbor’s cattle venture close to our property. I have some funny photographs I need to put in a blog post sometime. They’re really curious creatures. Someone once asked a group of people I was with, what animal they would like to be? My elderly friend, Leatrice said,”Well a COW of course”. I asked her why on earth a cow. Her reply, “They get to eat all day and roam around in the blissful sun, and nap in the shade and then eat again. What better life?”

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