Keeping Watch Under The Stars

After seeing a coyote out of my kitchen window last Saturday, I realized being this close to town was not, after all, going to deter predators from seeking prey. My first concern when I spotted the coyote was, of course, Emma and Ronnie deer, since the coyote seemed to be heading in the direction of their pen. But we also have chickens here, and their yard borders the deer pen. And just the morning before, I noticed something had tried to dig into the chicken pen in the night. It looked more like the digging of a fox, but that thought alarmed me since I also understand that a coyote is very capable of digging under the deer pen fencing. When we raised Daisy, we never secured the deer fence from being burrowed under. Back then, there had not been a threat like we have had lately. An apron fence to deter digging, had been in place for the chicken pen for many years, but we never had gotten around to doing the same for the deer pen.

Saturday afternoon I spent a lot of time researching how best to protect the deer from coyotes. I discarded the idea of scare tactics because those would probably scare the deer too. They were used to the motion lights on the house going off and on, and I felt that would be helpful, but of course coyotes acclimate themselves to the timing of things just as the deer had. I considered electric fence, but that seemed inadequate and maybe not as effective as I wanted, and there was the hassle of disconnecting it every time I needed to enter the pen. Finally, I decided I would have to put in an apron fence, but I was not about to install a dug apron fence like we had done with the chicken fence. I did not have the time nor the energy to dig all the way around the deer pen. A bent apron fence seemed much easier, since it did not require digging the fence down. With this type of fence, you bend the bottom foot or more of your fence out along the ground. That works because digging predators typically try to dig right along the fence, but encounter a barrier right away, and they just can’t dig down. And, fortunately, they cannot reason that, “I’ll just have to dig further back to get in.” When they dig, they dig at the fence line. If they can’t get in at the fence line, they go elsewhere.

Luckily, I already had a large roll of galvanized half-inch welded wire hardware cloth on hand. Still, I would need to order additional landscape staples to have enough to anchor the fencing down, until weeds and grass could grow up through the hardware cloth to anchor it more permanently. I did have enough staples left from a previous project to get a good start, and those would have to do until the additional staples arrived. Along with that, FD said he had some zip ties that I could use to attach the apron pieces to the existing fence, so I felt good that I had a plan that would keep Emma and Ronnie much safer after the installation of the fence apron.

But of course, with coyote on my mind and a fence apron not yet installed, I could not sleep at all Saturday night. I tossed and turned. I thought of that coyote lurking around our place, and poor Emma and Ronnie deer being an easy dinner if a coyote got under the fence. FD did not sleep either as a result of my flopping and tossing and turning. On Sunday morning, FD was up early again to partake in the primitive firearms season. I got up early too, and was relieved to find that Emma and Ronnie were just fine. But by Sunday, I still had not had a chance to start work on the apron fencing, and when it was time for bed, the old worry-wart in me emerged again, and  I knew I would not be able to sleep. Finally, I asked FD if it would be silly if I camped out under the stars, keeping watch over Emma and Ronnie?

So, at 10:30 at night, FD and I went out to the storage building with a flashlight, and dug out his hunting cot and sleeping bag. FD set it up while I gathered my cell phone, a high-powered flashlight, a mosquito net for my head, and a packet of Kleenex tissues. My only concern, was the possibility of a snake looking for warmth, but my need to protect the deer was stronger. And as FD shut off the front porch light, and I got settled in the sleeping bag, I felt a bit giddy. This was the first time in my life I had slept under the stars. I had tent camped in my younger days, but never out in the open. And I wasn’t really alone, as I could hear Emma and Ronnie settling next to me on the other side of the fence. I could not see them through the shade mesh that covered the fence, but I could hear them move about, eat feed, and chew their cud and, every so often, Ronnie snorted, as deer do. I felt comforted with them so near me. In fact, I felt just like a mother deer in the wild.

By midnight, town noises subsided, and only the distant howling of coyotes could be heard from various directions. Occasionally my neighbor’s jughead dogs took to barking and throwing out their “banshee” screaming howls but, just as Emma and Ronnie had grown accustomed to the racket over the last five months, I too learned to ignore them as the hours passed. The night sky was clear and bright with stars, and the Orionid meteor shower put on a slow, but brilliant, display of shooting stars throughout the night. Barred owls hooted their calls occasionally, and once I was sure I heard the whisper of  an owl’s wings gliding along the driveway as it headed east. I scanned the yard and pasture from time to time with my high-beam flashlight. As many animals do, I got up a couple of times and marked my territory too. I figured it is what any brave mother deer would do.

Actually, I slept well, awakening only to shift to one side or the other, or to rearrange a jacket I had brought to cover my head from the heavy dew. I had discarded the mosquito netting early in the night, as the temperature had dipped to 54F and insect activity had ceased. My sleeping bag was damp on the outside but, inside, I was toasty and warm.

At 5:00 our sleepy town began to stir, and by 5:30 I could hear traffic moving down the main drag just a few blocks away. The moon was bright in the sky now, and the stars seemed to be fading away. Emma and Ronnie were at the feed bucket again, crunching away at their mix of Purina Antler Max, “fruity kibbles”, and corn. I noticed the light in the kitchen come on, and I knew FD would be making his morning coffee soon, and that I should get up and get on with the day as I normally would. But part of me wanted to stay and watch the sky gently awaken and feel the earth warm in the sun, so I decided to stay snuggled up just a bit longer.

As I laid there and reflected on my night under the stars, I realized that my worry about Emma and Ronnie was gone. The initial fear that I had to confront a coyote, or deal with a snake in the night, had completely vanished as quickly as the first shooting star made its fleeting path across the night sky. I had come out in the dark to protect and guard Emma and Ronnie, but I ended up experiencing something greater for myself. My night under the stars did not bring the danger I had conjured up in my head. Instead, it brought me peace and tranquility, and covered me in a blanket of safety and comfort. Though I knew the mysteries of the dark would never be mine to understand, it was enough for me to experience the magic of this starry night with the hoot of the owls, the barking of neighborhood dogs and, mostly, the peaceful sounds of my Emma and Ronnie sniffing and snorting and contentedly chewing their cuds in the pen next to me…

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46 thoughts on “Keeping Watch Under The Stars

    1. Thank you, Tom. I sure felt better being out there and it helped me – in ways I didn’t expect. I’ll have another post coming about the fence. It was a lot of work (FD was out of town so I did most of it myself) but I feel so much better knowing we’ve done our best to keep Emma and Ronnie safe! 🙂

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    1. Thank you so much, Paulette. There is a ferocious nature within, to see to it that Emma and Ronnie have the best chances at surviving in the wild. It is the same as what you do to save those precious fur babies from kill shelters. It takes all kinds of people to compassionately look out for those who need our assistance.

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  1. Lori, so enjoyed reading your experience under the stars – in a way brought to mind MK Rawlings 😊 Few get to know the wonders of the night. The apron fence sounds just the trick to prevent digging predators. Look forward to reading your next post.

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    1. It’s been interesting to note just how my thought process of the night got out of control just by the thought of that coyote! It was so soothing and relaxing to experience the night as it really is… and not what I had cooked up in my head. I will be posting about the fence. It was hard work, but easy enough that I managed most of it on my own! 🙂

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        1. So many times it is a sudden event that forces us to come up with practical solutions. I do a lot of research here on all sorts of things. I love that the internet makes it easy to discover what solutions and options are available.

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  2. This is post book worthy, Lori. AND, you have perfectly caught Jack with his bucket in your moon shot! I have known of this ancient Scandinavian story for many years, but had never seen it myself, and here you have caught it as a gift for all of us to enjoy, Thank you!

    Read here for more about Jack and Jill and the moon’s phases: http://helenair.com/news/state-and-regional/nursery-rhymes-and-phases-of-the-moon/article_133e476d-4d9b-56fc-a5b8-200839471776.html

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    1. I actually took that photo November 18, 2013 at 7:26 AM. I did not have any good night time photos in stock. And, I do not like to use other people’s photos if I can help it. My iPhone was pathetic at night shots from the night I slept under the stars… none of them turned out well. Thanks for the link! I’m part Danish and did not know of the story.
      The meteor shower was slow, but well worth watching – and besides, what else did I have to do out there? 🙂 It was a grand night, and an experience I hope I can enjoy again sometime.

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      1. “This post is book worthy” not “This is post book worthy”. That’s what happens when I can’t sleep and try to post comments at just past midnight… My brain has turned to mush and I write drivel.

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        1. I didn’t even notice, Lynda! Ha ha! This is exactly why I have FD edit my work – I can’t even blame mine on lack of sleep. It’s just normal for me these days! 🙂

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  3. I love this post. My Mom used to let us sleep outside when I was young back in Tennessee. Out in the open. We weren’t in country like you are (I lived on a mountain), and there were no coyotes, but I well remember the mystery you speak of with all barriers and veils removed between ourselves and the night time. The night sky rotates as we sleep and we remember that we are on the surface of a great spinning planet. I would love to do that again. I am happy for you and proud of you. (On another note, I’ve decided that my 50s are all about confronting fears. It feels amazing.)

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    1. What a lovely comment, Charlotte. I wonder how many children get to experience the night time in this way? We camped in tents as kids, and in my 20’s I enjoyed tent camping in many of the great state and national parks in the US. I agree with you entirely about the 50’s being about confronting fears. I feel more courageous than ever! 🙂

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        1. My thought is, if we haven’t achieved the things we wanted to in life (realizing who we are – inner spirit), and we’ve been reluctant or miserable in our skin, we finally become uncomfortable enough at this stage in the game to do something about it. I do feel courageous at this time in life, and by gosh it does matter that we live out these amazing feats that we are capable of! 🙂

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  4. Hi Lori, The presence of coyotes nearby is keeping you on your toes. Good luck with the measures to make the deer pen more secure. I enjoyed your description of camping under the stars. It had a profound effect on you.

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    1. Hello Margaret. I sure have been thinking about the coyotes – they’re on my mind constantly. I loved how that night under the stars calmed me and filled me with a sense of comfort. All of these years I have worried about Daisy out there in the night… now I know it is probably even more safe for the deer than I realized. What with their great night vision and keen sense of hearing, they are better able to perceive danger than in the noisy daytime!

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  5. That is seriously one of the coolest things I’ve ever read. I don’t know why but I’m TERRIFIED of coyotes, so I commend you on the guts it took to sleep outside knowing they could be lurking around. Besides snakes the other thing I would be scared sleeping next to is spiders eeekkks! Ronnie and Emma are very lucky to have a loving mom like you 🙂

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    1. After I chased the coyote on Saturday morning, I was not afraid of it for myself. I was worried about it digging under the fence if I wasn’t there. I was just hoping it was too cold for snakes and spiders that night. I did have a giant garden orb get on my shirt the other day and you would have laughed at the scream and mad running and flapping of hands to get it off of me. Thankfully, it lived. 😀

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  6. That’s so wonderful. It must’ve been a beautiful experience even though stressful, keeping a look out for those nasty predators. I was wondering why there are no pictures but I saw your reply to Lynda’s comment :). And, yes, I agree, you NEED to ‘book’ your experiences. What a winner that would be!

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    1. Thank you, Mandeep. It is very dark back here on the property – on the edge of the woodlands. We do have city street lighting in the alley area, but it was still much too dark to get good photos. As for a book, I’ve started a couple of times, but I get overwhelmed. I keep thinking I need to just take one step at a time… and make the time to do it! Easier said than done for me. There is always work to be done around here!

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  7. Lori you are the best guardian ever and I think you did the right thing to ensure the little ones were safe. I’m sure the night was a lovely experience for you because your writing made me feel peaceful and even content. Sounds like something you might want to do again just for the wonder of looking at the sky and to hear the sounds of the night. I hope by now that you have secured the fence and that you can rest easy.

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    1. Yes, Yvonne, the fence is secure. There will be a blog post of course! I did not sleep well at all the night before and I knew it would be another night of tossing and turning if I stayed in the house. It was a lovely night… and yes, I will be doing that again sometime!

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  8. I literally can picture you camped out under the stars, bedding down with Emma and Ronnie, with a BIG SMILE on your face! You are such a nature girl, and the most wonderful deer mother that ever walked this earth on two legs!!

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    1. I actually thought about “legs” that night. I think it would be the coolest thing to have deer legs and be able to run like that! Aw, I remember the days a little blonde-headed girl used to tag along and camp with me. You were quite the treasure seeker as I recall… and the night did not bother you a bit either.

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      1. Last night a pack of wolves howled outside our open bedroom window (yes, we like to sleep in an ice box). We couldn’t see a thing and didn’t want to move around and scare them off, so we lay there quietly and I told Chris all about your adventure. It was really an amazing moment, thinking about how there aren’t many people having these kinds of experiences. There’s something magical about being awake with the night sky and the mysterious “night moves” of the animals.

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        1. There are many fears about night and darkness, but there is beauty and wonder to be found in the night sky and in the movement of night critters. We spent Thanksgiving with friends and were watching some Netflix show that evening and just outside the window I was sitting near, a Barred owl was calling in the night. I found myself drifting from the show, know full well I would miss important information on the show, yet that owl was far more intriguing to me. I knew it could see us through the windows, and probably the flashing of the TV screen too. It’s moments like that when I would love to communicate with the wild things. I wonder if they are as curious about our world as I am of theirs.

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