Hear Me Roar!

Weekends are usually the same as every other day for me, except that I am not on FD’s work schedule, meaning I do not get up quite as early to prepare breakfast and open up the storage building where our vehicles are stored, and unlock the front gate before he heads to work. This morning I slept in until 7:45, while FD had gotten up earlier than usual and quietly set off to meet a friend before sunup for the opening of the primitive firearms season. I could not believe how soundly I had slept that last hour and a half after FD kissed me goodbye around 6:00 a.m. Upon waking, I felt refreshed and contented. Why do humans have to have these crazy structured lives, I wondered? To me, it makes a lot more sense to just go with the flow of body rhythm. Why do we have to have such strictly enforced work and social schedules that clearly do not work for most of us? Oh well, I thought, I do have critters to take care of, so I might as well get with it.

My first task of the day is always to let Bear and Mr. T out to the front yard to do their morning bathroom business. When I do this, I never leave them outdoors alone. What with coyotes and foxes running around and raptors flying high above, my role has always been that of a shepherd, so to speak, keeping watch and protecting my little herd. While I stood guard over Bear and Mr. T, I briefly thought of Zoe. She was the smallest of our Japanese Chin and, as much as she loved the outdoors, it was always a worry for me to keep an eye on her at all times.  I still missed her terribly. Going about my morning tasks and chores had been lonely without her presence and companionship this summer. Back in the house, I started my first cup of coffee and looked at my iPad to check messages and email. As soon as the coffee finished brewing, I grabbed my cup and headed towards the sink. I scanned the counter thinking I needed to clean up a few dishes and as I prepared to plug the sink I looked out the kitchen window and there was a coyote!! Not the big coyote I had photographed last week, but certainly an adult, and it was headed straight for the deer pen!

The coyote was just approaching the little oak tree area when I spotted it. It was heading diagonally, straight to the deer pen!
The coyote was just approaching the little oak tree area when I spotted it. It was heading diagonally, straight to the deer pen!

Thankfully, I still had my shoes on from taking the dogs out. With no time to grab a jacket (it was 46F  outside), cell phone, or weapon, I raced out the front door with the only thing I had handy – a white kitchen tea towel! I bolted through the door and began to ROAR!! My voice became that of the biggest, scariest beast I could muster! I waved the white towel above my head, roaring deeply like a wild lion! I chased the coyote to the front gate which FD had closed behind him in the dark hours before sunrise. For a time, the coyote looked back at me in a panic, having nowhere to run to. I could tell it was in unfamiliar territory, maybe never having been this close to town, or along a street with houses. I finally slowed as I approached my mom-in-law’s garden. For a brief moment, I thought not to push too closely. What if it became frightened and turned on me in defense? Intuitively, I pressed forward slowly along the fence, giving the coyote the option to escape to the south, in my mom-in-law’s front yard. The pasture and alley were beyond that. It was my hope to flush it that direction in order to keep it from spooking the deer. Instinct led me to wave my towel and roar at precisely the right moments, and sure enough, the coyote exited at top speed to the south, crashing into a fence or two to escape this roaring, and obviously psychotic, human being.  Finally, I saw it duck into the woods as it headed west along the alley. I ran to the slope to watch the canyon below and see if it took the pathway along the feeders and watering tub down below, but I saw no sign of it. I imagine it took a more westerly route back to the pecan orchard and river beyond.

I was looking out the big kitchen window (in the distance) when I saw the coyote. It ran towards the metal building (camera view), following the driveway around the storage building.
I was looking out the big kitchen window (in the distance) when I saw the coyote. It ran towards the metal building (camera view), following the driveway around the storage building.
From the front of the metal building (camera view) the coyote rain towards the closed front gate. I wished the gate had been open as I could have forced the coyote to exit to the street, locking the gate behind it.
From the front of the metal building (camera view) the coyote rain towards the closed front gate that leads to the street. I wished the gate had been open as I could have forced the coyote to exit to the street, locking the gate behind it.
The coyote traveled all along the alley fencing (from left to right) finally diving into the woods.
The coyote traveled all along the alley fencing (from left to right) finally diving into the woods (right).

After assuring myself the coyote had returned to the river bottom, I slowly walked back to the deer pen. Other than looking a little anxious, Emma and Ronnie seemed just fine. Fortunately, I never heard them hit the fence while I roared and ran after the coyote. They were not panting and there seemed to be no injuries. It was just Wednesday of this last week that our new mesh fencing had arrived, and FD took the afternoon off of work so that we could make the deer pen safer by installing the mesh fencing all around the inside of the welded-wire fencing. This would not only provide a more visual barrier, but it would also provide a protective blanket of sorts, to hopefully keep the deer from harming themselves if they hit the fence. I was also thankful I had not been up earlier to do chicken chores and let them out for the day. Even though a coyote might possibly be able to dig under the fence to get at the deer, it would have been really easy pickings to nab a chicken from the dilapidated old chicken yard.

Emma and Ronnie seem calm behind the mesh - now on the inside of the wire fencing.
Emma and Ronnie seem calm behind the mesh – now on the inside of the wire fencing.

Calmly, I spoke to Emma and Ronnie as I filled their water tub and leisurely went about doing a few other chores like letting the chickens out. But all the while my heart was racing from the adrenaline rush of what had just taken place. I felt a sense of victory in managing to scare off the coyote. But I also felt a bit helpless, because I knew this would not be the end of the battle. I could not be present to ward off the coyotes all hours of the day and night. And I could not put myself through continual worry. I had done this before in my life – many times. Here was the opportunity again to trust Universe/God, to stand by our resolve to do our best, and to know that it is enough.

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29 thoughts on “Hear Me Roar!

  1. I’ll bet Emma and Ronnie were very proud of their Mom! I have done the old ‘roar’ thing a couple of times when chasing off dingoes or swooping birds. It must be a primal response! I wish you well, but you are right, you may have won the battle, but the war will go on. xx

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    1. I think dingoes must be the equal of the coyotes here. I too have sent hawks and other raptors away from their perches, waiting for their next meal. It doesn’t happen on my watch if I can help it! I know this will go on with the coyotes. Today I begin work to form a wire fencing “apron” along the bottom of the fencing to prevent digging into the pen. After that, we will have done all that we can. Hopefully, we can manage to keep Emma and Ronnie through hunting season, and by then they’ll be big enough and prepared to take care of themselves in the wild.

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  2. It’s a good thing you got to sleep in and were rested for that dish towel attacking episode. You have a great knack with how you write; a natural talent that I just love. We have a problem with coyotes also due to the drought. Hope you have a nice long sleep again tonight. 🙂

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    1. What a nice compliment, coming from such an accomplished writer! That made my day, Paulette! I believe coyotes are a real problem all over the country. I have heard some horror stories about people’s pets being snatched up even while on a leash. Usually, coyotes and foxes move on after they’ve cleaned out an area, but it seems these are still pressing on. I haven’t seen the foxes at all so I wonder if they’ve been cleaned out by the coyotes too? Regardless, we are keeping vigilant and watchful.

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  3. Good for you! Let’s hope that coyote will think long and hard about coming back on to your property.

    And you’re so right about that last part — we can’t always have control over the bad things in life. And constantly worrying about them just causes us more pain. It seems you’re learning some of the same lessons about life that I am, that we have to be brave enough to trust that we can handle whatever happens to us and our loved ones. I’m so glad to have such a brave & strong woman as my friend!

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    1. It does feel good to support each other when we have similar experiences. I thought I knew a lot after raising Daisy deer, but it’s apparent that Emma and Ronnie have taught FD and me even more about deer, and ourselves. Life is indeed an adventure, and how we perceive what we experience makes all of the difference in having understanding. I’m glad you are my friend too, Kim. You have been on a bold adventure the last couple of years – look at how you’ve grown! 🙂

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    1. We’re so limited on shooting anything but in one direction – west, being at the border of town (surrounded by neighbors). Even the pecan orchard poses a danger to shoot as there are two more rural residences to the east and south, and a city park to the north. And of course cattle graze in the pecan orchard as well. Today I’m working on making the deer pen safe from digging into, so I’ll feel better when that project is completed. Meanwhile, I will keep patrolling the area and noting times and places where I sight the coyotes and FD will have to hunt them when he can.

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  4. Big noise, be it roaring or banging a stick on a trashcan lid will work! I have chased off many malevolent creatures with big noise! For me, in the case of raptors and *nasty starlings, it keeps them away for quite some time. Good work Roaring Woman!

    *I know starlings can’t hurt you, but they can make me almost faint when a bunch of them take off and bank in flight just inches from me in the yard… Too many bird’s wings make a rush of air that is not only felt, but is audible too! I get the willies when they take over my space now.

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    1. I guess you don’t enjoy the movie, “The Birds”?? Ha ha! I think our “primal response” (as Ardys put it) rises fast and furious when necessary. I actually can see you making big noise to protect your geese, chickens and guineas. I know all of these years Daisy has managed to outsmart the coyotes, and Emma and Ronnie will too. But they’re young… and we’ve seen up to six-month old fawns disappear during the rut. My hope is to keep them until after hunting season ends, and they’ll be a bit bigger and ready to be free to run!

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    1. I have a plan… as of today. We already have motion detectors which is good at night. But we still need to secure the pen better. I will be putting a hardwire cloth apron around the bottom edges of the deer pen fence. It should keep a coyote from digging under the fence. I have the fencing but had to order the stakes to secure the wire to the ground. Hopefully, by the end of the week I’ll have the stakes. Meanwhile I’ll be cutting wire and doing coyote patrol (and ROARING) when necessary!

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  5. I could hear those deep, guttural (sp?) grunts as I read your description! The lioness in you came out when needed.
    We can only do what we can do to protect those we love, and ourselves, the best way we know how, and take comfort in knowing we did all we could. Easier said than done. Love your strength and insight.

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    1. I thought of you, Judith, when I chose the title! I did feel fearless and it felt good to roar. Perhaps in times of great pain and hurt I should have tapped into my inner lioness.. the adrenaline rush was tremendous! 🙂

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    1. We surprise ourselves with what we can do in the face of danger. I suppose being around wildlife so much and in nature, I only briefly thought about noise and scary flailing of arms and a white towel. There was no time to pause to think of what I had on hand. That coyote could run like the wind too. It was so fast that it had to have crashed pretty hard into a couple of fences while trying to escape. I’m glad my crazy waving and roaring did the trick! 🙂

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  6. I have ROARED and YELLED to prevent Tyson from attacking and killing intruder cats in our compound but to no avail. I need to take some lessons, perhaps ;). You have your job cut out, isn’t it? And, by the looks of it, you’re a pro.

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    1. I think those cats have the skinny on that aloof attitude of not being bothered by anything! I’m pretty sure this coyote was not used to the area up top of the canyon and I hope my roaring scared it so bad it will not return… however, hunger is a mighty powerful thing! I will be watching!!!

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  7. I think there’s nothing as powerful as a mothers instinct to protect her young. Well done. Are there regulations about killing coyote? Or can FD and his hunting bubbles deal with them? No news of Daisy ? Take care xxx

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    1. No news of Daisy, but I did see three does on a hike the other day so there are still some around. One of those may have been her – I couldn’t tell. There are no regulations on coyotes and FD will be on his own – and also the man who we lease the pecan orchard to for grazing his cattle has our permission to shoot coyotes. Everyone in these parts who hunts knows to kill coyotes or wild hogs if they run across them. Both populations are off the charts in this state and most of the Midwest.

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  8. Thank you for this wonderful insight into your world Lori, I can just picture you racing out of your kitchen like a ‘psychotic human being’, armed with that most formidable of weapons, the WHITE kitchen tea towel, as opposed to the blue one which isn’t half as threatening!!! 🙂
    All joking aside, I’m pleased to hear that you managed to frighten off the coyote, and all your animals are fine 🙂 And you’re right about not stressing out about them in the future………………………….more than likely all your furry friends will be just fine, with everything you and FD do for them, worrying about ‘what ifs’ does no one any good.

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    1. You’re right about worry and stress, Andy. It is high time I deal with that part of myself. And, in some ways, God/Universe sees to it that we have just what we need when the time is right. And just maybe Emma and Ronnie’s gift… to show me I need to allow the future to be what it is. Daisy continually showed me her instinct was strong. These two will have the best chances we could give them. 🙂

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      1. I’m glad to hear that you are more accepting of what the Universe has in store for us and the animals etc we care about 🙂
        And Emma and Ronnie could not possibly have got better foster parents to look after them!! 🙂

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  9. Two things came to my visual mind when reading this: the image of you waving the towel and roaring, AND imagining that fox heading back to the den and saying “Ya’ll would not believe what just happened to me!”

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    1. Ha ha!! Oh I hope that is exactly what happened! It really was terrified. It crashed into two fences before it found the path to the woods. I would love to see a video of myself roaring and waving that towel. What a story to tell great nieces and nephews! 🙂

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