It does not seem so long ago that Daisy, the orphaned deer, came to us as a wee 8 pound, spotted fawn of no more than a day old. Today she is a beautiful, long-legged girl, sporting her red, summer coat, roaming as she pleases. She carries scars from battle wounds; barbed wire fences cutting her hide, hoof beatings by other deer, and insect bites. She’s lost a few of her reflective collars, worn mostly to make her visible to motorists, and to let people know she’s been raised by humans. Though she has been sighted more than a mile from here, she tends to stay close to her home place most of the time, which makes her “mom” and “dad” pretty happy.
We really did not know what to expect when we released Daisy and Holly, the injured yearling, after hunting season last January. They took off together, though Holly did not return after a few days. We feel she may have ventured back to her area of origin, about 25 miles from here as the crow flies. We have researched deer relocation studies and discovered it is entirely possible she followed instinct and returned to her family herd. Daisy, however, may not have been confident enough, nor had the desire, to leave the only home she has ever known, and did not venture off with Holly. For five months now, Daisy has roamed this area on her own. She has shown us during that time that she is capable of surviving by instinct, without depending on us for anything more than friendship. We are still her human herd – her momma and, well, FD is probably more like an older sibling or aunt to her than “dad”. Short of the act of procreation, bucks do not do any real fathering.
Sometimes, Daisy will disappear for 2 or 3 days. I have tracked her a mile to the west near the river, and she has been seen nearly a mile north of here in another area near the river. Neighbors often spot her on the outskirts of town or across their pasture, grazing and moving about, always alert. She does not fear humans, but does recognize they are not part of her people herd, and is wary of them getting too close.
Most of the time though, Daisy is nearby or on our 10 acres. She is often found napping in the iris beds in FD’s Mom’s yard. Sometimes she is back in the woods or in the food plot we planted. Other times she’s in the nearby pecan orchard. We’ve seen her jump fences, fleeing a predator, and we recently heard her huffing in the woods while sensing some kind of danger, then bursting out to run across the pasture and to the safety of mom’s iris beds. At night we have spotted her in the canyon with some of the local, wild deer. One early morning we found her having corn at the feeder with a little buck about the same age as she is. We have watched her interact with other does, and sadly we have witnessed her being hoofed off by them. Recently, we have seen a mama doe at the feeder who continues to run Daisy off. Mother does are very protective of their young. Likely, she has fawns hidden nearby, and the doe is not tolerating a goofy yearling interfering with the safety of her young. We understand Daisy will probably not be accepted by the local herd. She does not understand the ways of a herd, and does not fear humans. She could be considered a danger to a herd, not knowing her place in the herd and their way of life.
If I am up before 6:00 in the morning, I often catch Daisy at the corn feeder below the house. Otherwise, we see her mostly in the evenings about an hour before dark. She seems to enjoy walking with us and grazing along the way, content to have the company of her people herd. She’s often silly and entertaining in the evening. Having slept during the day and only getting up to graze and get a bit of water, she’s ready to play and take off for her night exploration, doing whatever it is that deer do. FD often plays chase with her. She does her crazy head tossing, then gets down with her forelegs as if she is about to pounce, and then jumps, sometimes bucking and making a run for it!
Some mornings, if she’s napping over at Mom’s, Daisy will spot me and follow me around as I go about my morning chores, working in the gardens weeding, or watering flowers and herbs. While I work, Daisy helps herself to whatever might delight her palate. There isn’t much she doesn’t nibble on around here. My blackberries, raspberries, and fruit trees get a regular trim. Rose bushes get a good pruning too. In fact, Daisy eats the rose blossoms as well. I was pulling weeds one morning last week, when I heard a crunching noise near the grapevines. Sure enough, Daisy had discovered the plump, but not yet ripe, grape clusters hidden in the leaves. She simply nosed in and licked until her tongue caught the cluster and chomp, chomp… they disappeared in her mouth! One morning two weeks ago, FD and a friend had to quickly construct a fence around my tomato garden. I caught Daisy earlier that morning taking a chomp off the flowering tops of several tomato plants. I saw my future tomato crop vanish in a few ample gulps!
Another year from now, I imagine Daisy will have her own baby to think about. She will be starting her own little herd. I hope she will bring her babies to us each year, and I hope they will frequent our area. I will always try to keep a protective, reflective collar on Daisy for her safety. But I do realize there may come a time when she’s more wild, or feels compelled to set an example for her offspring to be wary of humans. Whatever her life is as time goes on, we will be flexible and allow her to be as she wishes. I may not have many plants left to admire and my berry and fruit crops may never really flourish, but it does not matter. FD and I agree it is an amazing gift we have been given, to share our lives with Miss Daisy Dew, our beautiful yearling, and would never trade it for the world.
© Day by Day the Farm Girl Way…
Bravo! Magnificent. Daisy and your wonderful and robust storytelling skills have brought me much joy. Your photos are fabulous and I am SO happy Daisy is well and you have had this affirming experience.
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Thank you Mike. You always compliment so generously. Yes, Daisy has changed my life. She brought me deer medicine when I needed it most!
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What a neat story, and it would be a good book, too. She certainly is a beauty, and seems to have more than average personality.
One of the photos answered a puzzle for me. My hummingbird feeder was on the ground when I got up,and being nearly full, I knew that the squirrels didn’t knock it down. We do have lots of deer coming out of the woods at night, but I didn’t give them a thought.
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We didn’t know about the hummingbird feeder interest either! Deer are very curious! Daisy is always licking objects, feeling them out. She is curious about anything new. I bought a new hose nozzle the other day and she immediately saw it and started licking and checking it out. I’m not sure it’s the nectar so much as the interest in that bright red container that gently swings in the breeze!
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That could be. I remember how nosy the cows were with something new in the field.
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So agree with the “It would be a good book” comment!
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Thanks Marilyn! Gosh, so many people have mentioned this. It overwhelms me. First, that my writing would cause enough interest to write/publish a book, and secondly, where does one start with such a venture?
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I watched a documentary on Lion’s and the mama brought the cubs back to the human so that she could show them off and allow the human that raised her the privilege of seeing them for the first time. This could very well be what will happen in your case.
Enjoyed the read.
DS
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Thank you DS! I think when some species imprint with humans there is indeed a bond that is lasting. There are some unique and very special life-long relationships for some. Some orphans we have raised have hung out here on the place for months, but eventually they found their place in the wild and we don’t see them anymore. If we do see them, we don’t recognize or know them anymore. They don’t come to us as they did in the beginning. I hope Daisy will always visit.
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She is beautiful! I see that the book concept has come around again. 😉 I too hope that it becomes a reality! Your writing is always so uplifting. Have a blessed day, Lori!
~ Lynda
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Lynda, you are always so complimentary! A book would be awesome. I just need to muster up what it would take to make it happen. There is so much goodness of nature that is uplifting and inspirational. I’m glad my stories make people feel good. Life should be about happy moments and enjoyment of the simple things. I love you so much, my friend!
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Nice to see she’s doing well. So glad usually manages to keep a collar on.
Yes, you will need good fences to protect tasty veggies and plants – it’s always a battle! (do hope she doesn’t invade neighbors gardens)
Thanks for the pictures – and about that book, it would do well ( people need a good story and a positive outcome these days)
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I always worry she will find her way to a neighbor’s garden. She’s a horrible tomato hound! Not just the fruit,mind you, but the whole plant is tasty to her. We discovered last week that she loves poison ivy. I guess there isn’t too much she doesn’t enjoy eating.
Her summer collar is lightweight and seems to wear just fine. In the cold winter months the reflective material cracks and breaks, or the Velcro doesn’t last. We are always designing something new or looking at a different material to use. The winter collar design worked well, but we felt the material used was too heavy. I will continue to research for a better product. I’m just glad she doesn’t rebel wearing a collar. It really does help to keep her safe and to help identify her.
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beautiful
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Thank you! It means a lot to me to hear that, Jennifer.
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She is a beautiful yearling doe and you should be so very pleased with how well she has turned out. It would be awesome if that was her mother and they were reunited. You’re photos are wonderful. I love the one of her eating the roses. Congratulations on your success on raising her from babe to yearling…
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Thank you Josie! Too bad I don’t have video so you can hear the crunching along with the disappearing roses! This afternoon I found Daisy under the shade of a small maple tree in front of the house. She was waiting for FD to come home, or someone to come out of the house! She had already been to visit FD’s mom, who was working in the garden up by the street. Daisy came up softly behind her and licked her arm. I think these days of being hoofed off by the mama doe down below are causing her to spend a lot more time up top with us. It will be interesting to see if she can reunite with this mama doe. They did well together before the doe gave birth. Poor Daisy is full of hoof marks and bruises.
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I totally agree, a book would be wonderful!!!
You write so naturally, the book would be amazing.
Love hearing all about your little bit of land, it cheers me up no end.
If you ever need a little Scottish apprentice to work the land, I am your gal!!!
Say hello to Daisy for me 🙂
Kx
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Thank you so very much for your lovely comment! Oh, I’m sure I could find plenty of work for you to help me with but I know what would happen. We would be side-tracked with a deer, all sorts of bird watching, fox observing, squirrel play, and turtles crossing the yard. There is never a dull moment here. I suppose it’s all about being flexible to get a little work done, but take in the gifts nature offers. My life is forever changed here. I’m so happy you enjoy my stories!
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Those pictures are just amazing, Lori.
So cool that we get to share in your compassion and love for Daisy. You capture her spirit so well in words and photos.
Hope you have many years more with Daisy. Hopefully nature will permit it.
My very best to you and FD!
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Thanks MJ! Daisy’s story is so special. It’s a wonderful compliment for you to say I capture her spirit. Daisy has educated me about the deer people, and yet, there have been many messages for me personally, observing her way of life. It is that way with all of nature, but for some reason, Daisy’s presence makes it all the more apparent for me to “live in the moment” and not so much the way I used to be. Thank you for taking the time to share the journey with me!
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That is so lovely! I want a deer to keep me company! She is very beautiful.
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It is quite an amazing thing to keep company with a deer. To be able to groom each other (I pull ticks off and brush her hair while she licks me!) or to lie down next to each other is pretty amazing. Most evenings she comes to visit and we walk together, finding “treats” along the way. I pick cherry tomatoes, blackberries and ground cherries for her to snack on. She eats dropped apples and peaches, and while I pull weeds she eats weeds! It’s wonderful quiet time for both of us, yet together time.
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This is one of the sweetest things I’ve seen in a while. Humans bonding with animals and nature….nothing warms my heart quite like that.
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Thank you for your wonderful comment. Daisy deer has indeed changed our lives, and I discover more and more from neighbors who have spotted her, that she is loved and admired by many people. She’s not really people friendly, more leery, but unafraid of humans. We have raised several orphaned birds, a couple of ducklings, and a squirrel. We’ve rehabbed injured birds and a deer. When they’re already wild, one just hopes they know the kindness of a humans loving touch. When they’re orphans, they bond, sometimes for a lifetime. It’s pretty amazing… and oh, the love. I just can’t explain it!
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It’s amazing. My mom and brother raised two baby squirrels. They named them Nut and Bean. Eventually as they started to get big enough they built the babies a platform on a tree close to the house with food on it, so they could start learning to climb. For the first few years they could identify them when they’d come back, but now it seems it’s hard to tell one from another. I have pics of Bean laying on their dogs back resting when he was a baby. 🙂 I can’t wait to someday live out in the country again so I can appreciate the beauty of wild nature.
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Ha!! What cute names! We eased Frosty the squirrel into the woods slowly too. He didn’t hang around long… took off after a female about a week after Mother’s Day! Kids. We think he lives a block away as we often see a red squirrel with a white tip to it’s tail (thus the name Frosty – lost part of his tail to frostbite). I would love to see the photos of Nut and Bean.
I know you can achieve your dream of country life again… just be positive and KNOW it will happen!
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